March 6, 2015

Darling I'm a Nightmare Dressed Like a Daydream

No doubt by now you've not only watched Rosamund Pike's impeccable performance in Gone Girl but also watched the music video for Blank Space by Taylor Swift. If you haven't, um, what have you been doing with your life? Here - take a few minutes and watch these two videos.



...Not that I have much room to speak seeing as how I only managed to watch Gone Girl a few days ago. But let's not focus on that detail, yes?

For those of you who have yet to watch the movie or read the book, Gone Girl (written by the uber-talented Gillian Flynn) tells the story of the disappearance of Amy Elliott Dunne and suspicions quickly fall on to her husband, Nick Dunne, whom Amy claims had physically abused her. Visually, the movie is amazing with an amazing performance by Rosamund Pike. I haven't read the book (yet!) but Amy Dunne was the cold, calculating character that I can't resist getting to know more.

Having spent a couple of days digesting the movie, I was recently listening to Blank Space by Taylor Swift and I couldn't help but draw a few similarities between the two characters (Amy Dunne and the one played by Taylor Swift).

In a time where female protagonists such as Anastasia Steele and Bella Swan have dominated the young adult market, Amy Dunne is a refreshing portrayal of a true strong female protagonist.

Now you may be wondering what makes me think a character as manipulative, calculating, and possibly sociopathic as Amy Dunne would ever make a good role model but hear me out.

Amy Dunne is the pinnacle of a woman who has tried and tried again to solve her marriage issues with her husband and when she finds him unfaithful, she doesn't play the role of a woman distressed or simply accepting her fate. She takes matter into her own hands and decides to teach her husband a lesson he won't soon forget. Were her actions misguided? Yes, possibly. But those actions also come from a woman who has personified the saying, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" and I can't help but find it empowering.

Amidst times where women are often looked down upon for being assertive or asking for what they want, it's refreshing to see that we're not the crazy ones. We're not weird or annoying or bitchy for going after what we want; for responding in a appropriate manner when we feel cheated; for blamed for actions that are not our own. Gone Girl does not show that women want to feel power over men or that we want to see them at our feet within our control. It shows that women have a right to feel cheated and have the right to fight back.

Some people (okay, many people) will disagree with that last statement on the account of 'two wrongs don't make a right' but in a world where men still dominate the workforce in any given industry and where it's so hard to find a film with a strong female lead who is not just the pretty face there to accompany the lead male character, I'm very happy to see that Amy Dunne stands out against the rest and more importantly, she's able to hold her own.

It's refreshing to see that a female lead doesn't need to don a tight spandex suit and then only be asked about her diet to get into that suit (yes, I'm looking at you reporter-who-asked-Scarlett-Johansson-the-rabbit-food-question) to be a true badass. We can have female roles in mainstream media that are about strong, empowering females who take matters into their own hands, who can manipulate and play hardball with the best of them, even while they wear baggy sweaters and cardigans. Hell, we can have female leads who are slightly deranged and a little psychotic and still make those characters into the protagonist of our TV shows and films.

I think it's about time that network executives learnt this fact. Don't you?

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June 24, 2014

Music Mondays: Week 01

So I wanted to start a small series because it's summer and I want to do something different. Music has always been a huge part of my life - unfortunately, I can't play an instrument but listening to music always does wonders for my mood. Basically, I have a song attached to some of my favorite books, shows, and memories and I'm sure many of you can relate to that. With that in mind, I decided to do something called 'Music Mondays' where I would put out a list of some of my favorite songs that I've been listening to during the past week.

So this past week - more like this entire summer thus far - I've been loving OneRepublic. I don't know what happened but I listened to their newest album, Native, and found myself loving every single song on the album. Which, let me tell you, has never happened to me before. Then I found myself going through their older stuff and re-listening to all of the older songs. So it makes sense that my first MM would focus on songs by OneRepublic, right?

Well, here they are!

What You Wanted (Native)

All This Time (Waking Up)

Everybody Loves Me (Waking Up)

What is some of the music you've been listening to lately? 

April 2, 2014

30 Before 30

I haven't been updating this blog as much lately because  I just haven't had the best few weeks. Between term papers due pretty much every week to midterms and lab reports, this little baby has been ignored. Oops? It also may have something to do with the fact that I just haven't felt inspired enough to write in general.

Picture taken from a Wallpaper app on Android. 

But it's time to break that cycle and I want to do it with a simple post that I've been seeing a lot of lately: the 30 before 30. Basically, it's a list of 30 things that I want to do before I turn 30. I have just over 7 years to get everything in this list done but I'm determined to see it through.

1. Write (and publish) a book.
2. Graduate school. //completed
3. Tour the Warner Bros. HP studio in London.
4. Spend a month or two travelling around Europe.
5. Go back to India for at least a month and spend time with family there.
6. Get a tattoo. //completed.
7. Spend Christmas/NYE in New York City.
8. Go back to Harry Potter land (Wizarding World of HP) in Florida.
9. Get my own apartment.
10. Get a dog (or two!).
11. Take a road trip.
12. Figure my shit out -- answer the age-old "What am I doing with my life?" question.
13. Begin a clean-eating journey.
14. Complete The Happiness Project.
15. Learn HTML and Photoshop.
16. Become a better person in general.
17. Commit to something - anything - wholeheartedly.
18. Learn to appreciate the simpler things in life.
19. Constantly tell those I care about that I love them.
20. Skydive.
21. Go on the biggest roller coaster in the world - wherever that is.
22. Learn to swim.
23. Keep this blog updated consistently.
24. Learn more patience - especially with my parents.
25. Become more fit and healthy.
26. Learn to keep in touch with my friends without flaking.
27. Keep writing. Write, write, write.
28. Go to the Tomorrowland music festival. Or Osheaga. Or even Coachella.
29. Be more comfortable in my own skin and become more confident in my abilities. Let the past go.
30. Learn how to read music and eventually, learn how to play the piano.

+31. Be more happy. Discover what happiness means to me and push for it.

Do you have a 30 before 30 list? 

If not, I highly recommend you make one. Not only does it give you the chance to really look deeper into yourself but by the end, you may just realize what you give the most importance to. 

February 7, 2014

A Love Affair with (David's) Tea

Winters in Canada are harsh - obviously. While I drink coffee like it's water during the summer, it's a different story for the winter.

In winter, I begin a love affair with tea.

I have a ridiculous amount of tea but I've realized that there are a few that I've kept near and dear to my heart. So I thought this would be a good idea to blog about.

Because why not.


My tea stash comes from David's Tea. It's the only specialized tea store that is close enough for me to walk to and I've fallen in love with how amazing all their teas are. I have yet to be disappointed by a tea I've bought from them. But here are my current favourites!

1. Gail's Organic Cold Remedy (green tea)
Sadly, this tea has been discontinued now. This was in my stock for a year now and when my throat began to go particularly scratchy, this was the tea I went to. I was really really disappointed to find out it'd been discontinued but hopefully it may make a comeback next year? David's Tea, if you're reading this, PLEASE BRING THIS BACK.

2. Coffee Cake (black tea)
Again, I don't know why this wasn't on their website. This tea was part of their Winter collection and I can't even deal with how delicious it is. I don't usually take tea with milk but this tea is absolutely phenomenal with a splash of milk. Right when you open the lid, you're hit with a very sweet and soft scent that just overwhelms your senses. Craving that coffee cake from Starbucks? Skip that dessert and drink a cup of this instead. You won't regret it. 

Promise. 

This is one of the newer sweetners that I've seen at David's Tea and when I bought it, I was battling quite a nasty cold. Since I live in residence, I didn't really want to go and buy a jar of honey and lemons separately so I figured I'd try this particular product out. And I'm glad I did! It just melts so easily in your tea and you can even dunk your fingers in and eat it plain. You can definitely taste the lemon flavour quite distinctly but it's molded together with the honey so well that it's just amazing to add to your tea. Not interested in the lemon flavour? They also have cinammon creamed honey!

I couldn't find the design that I have since I suspect it's been sold out on the website. It was part of thier holiday collection so I believe it may make a comeback next winter maybe! But I love these mugs. They have a stainless steel infuser that fits right into the mug so you can put your loose-leaf teas in the infuser and leave them to steep right in the mug. At $20, they are kind of expensive but if you are a tea lover, this is the one mug you need in your pantry. 

Do you have any tea favorites?

January 26, 2014

Review: Maybelline Color Elixir

A month ago, I found out that Maybelline was finally bringing their Color Elixirs to Canada. I could not be more excited. These little babies were supposed to be a trifecta, delivering shine, pigmented application, and a balm-like texture in one. So I popped over to the closes Walmart and picked up two colors that I'd been in love with for a while.


L: Blush Essence // R: Captivating Carnation





L: Blush Essence // R: Captivating Carnation

I really like this new line by Maybelline. They do deliver on the appropriate shine and the balm-like texture. However, I don't particularly think they're the most pigmented glosses in the market. Then again, it could be because of the the shades I picked up are relatively light. I'd like to buy a deeper colored shade and test out its pigmentation though. But I do like the softness of the colors; both colors apply very subtly and give a nice, soft touch to your overall look.

The only thing that I don't like about these elixirs is that they are very sticky. I absolutely hate it when strands of my hair get stuck to my lips and for that reason, I've learnt not to wear either of these elixirs on a particularly windy day out -- at least not if my hair won't be up in a bun or a ponytail.

In every other way, I think these are pretty good though. Love the color and the shine it gives.

Have you tried these? What are your thoughts?

January 20, 2014

Revlon's Just Bitten Kissable Balm Stain + Swatches

Remember when I said I've been getting a little too into lip products? Well when that started, it started with baby steps. If I'm going to try out different colors, I want to try them out with products like Revlon's Just Bitten Kissable balm stains. 


I had originally picked up the Honey shade but after falling in love with it, I decided to experiment with some of the more different shades - Crush and Smitten. One of the lipstick colors that I've always wanted to experiment with was a nice, deep wine color. Winter season is the perfect time to rock anything wine-colored: lips, nails, scarves, whatever you like! 


The Honey shade originally applies as a soft-pink, almost-mauve color and once the shimmer has faded, it turns into a really soft and subtle pink shade, which is just lovely for everyday wear. 

Crush, on the other hand, is an amazingly deep wine-colored shade that really makes a statement on your face. It pairs brilliantly with really subtle eye makeup and is great for occasions where you want a deep color but you don't want to use a lipstick. 

Smitten is a great intermediate shade between Honey and Crush. It's a deeper pink than Honey but not as deep as Crush. Again, it's particularly fantastic for everyday use and this shade you can pair with subtle eyes for a daytime look or with a nice smokey eye for a nighttime look. 



What I love about this range is that while there is originally bit of shimmer in the initial application, after a few hours, the shimmer pretty much fades away, leaving a nice matte finish on the lips. It does tend to leave residues on cups or mugs or whatever but not to the point that it's very noticeable.

The pigmentation is absolutely fantastic and since it's a balm stain, the formulation leaves your lips feeling nourished and well-moisturized. Bonus point: use these with a nice chapstick if your lips are really dry. It will make a significant difference.

January 17, 2014

Let's Get Naked (3)

This past holiday break, I gave myself one of the best Christmas gifts: Urban Decay's Naked 3 palette. 

I was procrastinating from studying and on a whim, I decided to check Sephora's online store to see if it was in stock. It was Tuesday and it was supposed to be available in stores on Wednesday. Imagine my surprise to see it on the website a day earlier. Imagine my relief to see it in stock. Without a second thought, I ordered it right away.

At $60, it's certainly quite an investment to make but because of the neutrality of the shades and amazing quality of the palette itself, I'd say it's an investment you won't regret making. Plus, the palette lasts for a long time. I've been using one of the eyeshadows from the Naked palette to fill in my brows everyday and it's yet to make even a small dent.



The palette is absolutely amazing. As you can see, and as I've already mentioned in an earlier blog post, this palette boasts 12 brand-spankin'-new shades from Urban Decay. True to the quality of the Naked palette, each shadow is incredibly pigmented and glides on very well. 

The colors are fantastic and as you can see, the palette has a brilliant balance of shimmers and mattes and soft, everyday-use shades as well as those you can use for smoky eyes. 





L-R: Strange, Dust, Burnout, Limit, Buzz, Trick


L-R: Nooner, Liar, Factory, Mugshot, Darksite, Blackheart


Two bonuses of this palette are that it comes with a double-ended eye shadow brush and samples of all 4 of Urban Decay's primer potions: original, sin, eden, and anti-aging. Each sample claims to last for about a week's worth of use and it's a fantastic way to try out all the different formulations to see which you like the best. I know when I first bought the original primer potion, I was so overwhelmed between whether I should get sin, eden, or the original since I had no idea how all of them would look. With this, it makes your decisions easier. Plus, it's nice to try them out to see if the Urban Decay primer potions are worth the investment in the first place. 

Overall, I love this palette. I wasn't much of a fan of the Naked 2 palette but this is well worth the investment. Between this and the original Naked palette, I don't think I'll be using any other palettes that I own - at least not for regular usage. 

What do you think? Is it worth the investment?

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